It's safe to assume that when enrolling with a clinic, there are necessary requirements that need to be met before officially being accepted into the program. Things like paperwork and screening tests are a couple of the Surrogacy India (SI) requirements. The screening tests range from basic blood work-ups and urine cultures to a few up close and personal tests. Given that we will be using my eggs and Geoff's sperm, there are nineteen screening tests that I am required to have and ten for Geoff. Obviously time is of the essence, therefore panic set in that we'd be scrambling to schedule doctor appointments ASAP, but I must say, all is going quite smoothly thus far.
Getting an appointment with my gynecologist is like getting in-season Red Sox tickets - unless you know someone, it's nearly impossible. Lucky for me, Nancy has been in my life for twenty years and she is on my side! I left a frantic voicemail for her nurses last Thursday night saying that we're moving forward with surrogacy in India and in order to enroll, I must have a bunch of tests run. Six days later, I was sitting with my feet up in her office. To be clear, sitting with my feet up.........in stirrups with my mustn't-touch-it exposed! (For the record, the "mustn't-touch-it" phrase is straight from my Dad's vocabulary.) In one fell swoop, she ordered sixteen of the nineteen tests and from her office, I bopped down to the blood lab and then into X-ray. 13 vials of blood, a chest X-ray, pelvic exam, 10 hugs and a pep talk from Nancy later, I was headed home at 7pm. Thank you Nancy P.!!!
Other progress this week......Geoff gets close and personal with a plastic cup on Thursday for a more recent semen analysis and we have an appointment on Friday with our fertility doctor here to discuss our plans in India. (Sidenote - our fertility doctor is Dr. R. Ian Hardy of Fertility Centers of New England and we highly recommend him for those looking locally!)
11 years ago
Welcome to the blogging world!! I am so happy for you both. I can't wait til we meet one day. I may just have been a reference for you guys but I really have enjoyed talking with you and getting to know you and your story. You both have done a great job researching and getting your ducks in a row. I am so glad you chose SI. You will not be disappointed. Keep us posted on everything. Good Luck to you both on your journey.
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PS: I don't want to learn about about your process on some blog. You better call me with all the details and mile stones. promise?